Find Your Stories
Four skills, four true stories. Here's how to pick them.
For most students, picking the right story is harder than telling it.
You need four stories, one for each skill. Three skills are assigned. The fourth is your choice. Your stories can come from this course, from work, from your family, or from your community, and they don't have to be dramatic. They have to be real, specific, and yours.
Your four skills
Prompts for every skill
For the three assigned skills, these prompts help you find which moment fits. For the other seven, they're there to help something click. If one sparks a real memory, that might be your fourth story.
Assigned: find your moment
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Adaptability & Leadership Assigned
Adapting to changing circumstances, finding ways to work and thrive in different settings, and supporting others toward a shared goal.
Leadership doesn't have to mean team captain or club president. It also means leading your own life: making decisions, taking responsibility for your choices, or stepping up in a small way without anyone assigning you the role. Sometimes it's just becoming someone others quietly look to because of how you handled something.
Starting college is itself a major adjustment. Was there a moment early this semester when you had to adapt to something that caught you off guard? Or think about Module 3 (time and energy) or Module 10 (collaboration): when did something change unexpectedly, and how did you adjust? When did you lead yourself, or quietly help a group move forward?
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Professionalism Assigned
Acting with honesty and fairness, prioritizing tasks, managing time, taking initiative, and following through reliably.
At its core, professionalism is being someone others can rely on: doing what you said you'd do, acting with integrity, and staying aware of how your actions affect the people around you.
Think about Module 3 (your time plan) or Module 8 (your career snapshot). When did you follow through on something even though it was hard or inconvenient? When did your word matter to a classmate, coworker, or instructor, and you kept it? When did you balance what you wanted to do with what you knew was the responsible thing?
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Knowledge Application Assigned
Applying what you've learned, including academic knowledge, skills, and abilities, to real situations connected to your field or career direction.
It doesn't have to be a big "aha" moment. It can be something from a class showing up somewhere outside that class: a concept that clicked once you saw it in real life, or a skill from an assignment that turned out to be useful for something else.
Think about Module 6 (academic planning) or Module 8 (career exploration). When did something you learned in a class, or discovered about a career path, change how you thought about your future or what you did next?
Your choice: does one of these spark something?
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Communication Your choice
Listening, weighing different perspectives, and expressing your thoughts clearly, in writing, in conversation, or in a formal setting.
Real communication goes beyond the words. It includes listening, and being honest with yourself about why you're saying what you're saying: angling for something, nervous and filling space, or trying to control where a conversation goes.
When did you have a conversation you weren't looking forward to: asking for help, clearing up a misunderstanding, or explaining something to someone who saw it differently? Or when did you notice something about how you were communicating, and what was driving it?
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Critical & Creative Thinking Your choice
Evaluating information and assumptions to reach informed conclusions, and combining ideas in original ways to solve problems.
Part of this is being strategic instead of reactive. A lot of what competes for your attention is designed to provoke a quick reaction. Noticing that, and choosing your response anyway, is critical thinking too.
Think about Module 9's 4C Check or Module 4's SIFT method. When did you slow down and think something through instead of going with your first reaction? When did you notice emotion pulling you toward a quick conclusion, and step back?
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Quantitative Reasoning Your choice
Using data, numbers, and evidence to guide decisions and choose the best approach to a problem.
If "I'm bad at math" is your first reaction, you're probably using more math than you give yourself credit for: budgeting, fitting time between classes and shifts, adjusting a recipe, comparing prices.
Think about Module 5 (financial planning). When did looking at actual numbers (a budget, a schedule, a pattern you tracked) change a decision? Or when did you use numbers to figure something out in everyday life, even if you wouldn't have called it math?
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Interpersonal Relations Your choice
Showing self-awareness and appreciation for different perspectives, and working respectfully with others.
Think of this one as your own planet: what's going on with you in relationships, how you connect, and what you need. (Collaboration & Teamwork is the solar system: how you operate within a group.)
Think about Module 2 (your support system). When did you notice something about how you connect with people, or navigate a relationship that mattered to you?
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Civic Engagement Your choice
Taking part in activities, political, social, or otherwise, that address issues and benefit a shared community.
There's a saying often associated with Gandhi: "Be the change you want to see in the world." It doesn't have to mean something huge. It can mean noticing a gap in a community you're part of and helping close it.
Think about Module 11 and your Mile Marker #11. When were you part of that kind of change, even informally? Or how do you want to start being that kind of presence, building on your offer and boundary?
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Collaboration & Teamwork Your choice
Working effectively in teams, being an effective team member, and managing conflict constructively.
Where Interpersonal Relations is your own planet, this one is the solar system: how you operate within a group, and how everyone's orbits affect each other.
Think about Module 10 (your collaboration profile). Almost everyone has a group work story, and it's not always a good one. A project that went sideways often makes a better story than a smooth one, especially if you can point to something you did or learned because of it.
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Information Literacy Your choice
Identifying, evaluating, and responsibly using information to make decisions.
This one connects to Critical & Creative Thinking. Approaching information, especially news and what you see online, with healthy skepticism often means staying calm enough to evaluate it before reacting.
Think about Module 4, where you learned SIFT. When did you have to stop and check whether something was true or trustworthy before relying on it or reacting to it?
You don't need a perfect match. If two or three prompts spark something, pick the one with the most specific, real memory attached. Specific beats impressive every time. You'll name your four in Mile Marker #11.
Mine your own work
You've been collecting stories all along. Before you start from scratch, look back at what you've already written.
- Your Mile Markers. Each one asked you to reflect on something real: your time, your money, your plan, your strengths, your career research.
- Your Merit reflections. Each activity was something new you stepped into.
- Your life outside class. Work, family, caregiving, volunteering, a team, a hard season you got through. These count.
Is it a good story?
A story is worth telling if you can say yes to these:
- You did something. There's a clear Action that was yours, not just something that happened to you or your group.
- It shows the skill. Someone listening could name the skill without you saying it.
- Something changed. You can name a Result, even an imperfect one.
- It points forward. You can see where this skill shows up next for you.
Use a different story for each skill. One experience can show several skills, but four different stories show more of who you are.